The best thing to fall in love with is your scribbled words of future in your diary; you need to be madly in love with your dreams. Everyone is in the myth of being told to do what everyone does because everyone thinks it’s the best way but nobody has told so, just because everyone is like everyone, don’t kill your wants of being just one. This everybody is made with one-body like you, and everybody thinks everybody is doing the same and wanting to be different from everybody which nobody forced him to be like everybody but just his timid heart searched for the warmth of cradle songs of comfortability in the crowd to share fears and blames. Being unique is not about being completely different from the rest but heading differently from the rest. And the difference you should create is that, for the rest they will be walking following the person in-front of him but you will be following your heart.
Life is full of choices, but if you look closely it’s just two choices, yes or no, interestingly both are right. And people who are in the stage of MAY BE are the ones who are worth to be garlanded with flowers from grave. Factually, ‘I can’ and ‘I can’t’ are right. And CAN and CAN’T should not be decided by the ability but by the willingness. No one is born with being able to but born willing to, that’s where the point is, millions think that they are bad because they performed badly but never were they willing to perform perfectly. Even if you did poor, that willingness will pull you up to track. There are millions who hates you, and 99% of them have the same reason for why they hate you, it’s nothing but you got something which they don’t have. And 1% are those sitting next to you, who cheers you up on the track but never shows up on the trophy day, they are the one who will greatly control your emotion because you have thrown your trust to them. To pour out the fact, you have just one person who will never discourage you when you give your trust completely; the one whom you always threw in comparison, you yourself.
This is a society where truth is nothing but something accepted by majority. And the funny part is that majority of this society have made the truth to something that is comfortable to them. And the comfortability that they have created is hurting each and every one of them, even saying so they still are comfortable with the comfortability because they think that a slide move will make them the laughing stalk. They never knew that a slide move from this trend will create a huge vibration in their lives, gaining the freedom to follow their heart not the herd.
Aren’t you tired of crying everyday while washing your face, hiding tears. It’s okay that you are hiding from this society but you are also trying to hide from yourself. Cry, cry and cry but before you wipe your tears off, look yourself in the mirror and ask for why you are crying, the answer may be stupid but that courage to answer will carry out the power to overcome out from yourself too. When you are hurt, tell yourself that you are hurt, convince yourself that there are better things in life for you rather than staying broken and destroyed.
Parents keep trying to tell their kids for only their advice will make their ward’s life fruitful. But the only advice that can make their children worth living on this planet will be, “Go Live Your Live.” To make something clear, you are born to start but not to continue. As you are born to start, you are not supposed to give up your own dream just to fulfil someone’s unfulfilled dreams. Stop becoming a doctor because your mom is sick, stop going for AIPMT just because your father could not crossed the hurdle, stop staying home whole day just because your parents says so by killing your adventurous feeling inside, because one day you will tour the world with yourself turning around with a rope around your neck with the movement of the fan. So, before you destroy yourself, destroy the fear that’s humping in you.
(The writer is a Motivational Orator, based in Canada. And can be reached at [email protected]; Facebook – Birkarnelzelzit – Young Thoughts; Twitter – Birkarnelzelzit, INSTAGRAM – Birkarnal, watch his WILL motivational videos by going to his YouTube channel @birkarnelzelzit thiyam)