Living in the realm of reality will kill fear for it will defame your imagination of third person. The secondary response weighs over the primary for you supplement the weight of the secondary with your attention and affection. You are scared to try because you are scared to get scared thinking you may get scared, so you submerged to stay safe under the surface of sub-conscious game of SHOULD I? THEN WHAT WILL?
You were given a best title for solving the maximum number of problems in maths. So were you, still you are, into the thought of looking the world as problems and you are looking for solutions to earn happiness while you never get. You are searching for something which was never created. Everything is an opportunity, a problem is an opportunity for you need it to score marks. This world will never tell you or guide you to your happiness, because they don’t care. Sometimes you care for people too much thinking they will give you happiness for you end up writing dairies full of break up stories. There are tourist who goes to places searching for happiness but there are also tourist who happily goes searching to capture moments. Don’t sweat to gain happiness, just happily earn happiness, because happiness is contentment not conquering. Never let your happiness fall on peoples compliments for you are just pulling yours dreams to drown in depression.
Just because you fail in the first, doesn’t mean you will keep failing. This world is so much like Bollywood movies because most of the Bollywood stories can be told by just looking the first scene; this is what they assumed about you. You got to believe that you are not one of those Bollywoods but you are your production where you got to control whatever you want it to happen. And trust me when you make a movie and you want to make the protagonist very successful, you tend to look at the starting point, you will make it a farmer or some low level guy who will turn out to be billionaire stuff. So, just know that you are making this film for yourself and whenever you feel low, think of that farmer role, the more low you are, the successful you become.
What you see is corrupted for you got no controls and what you hear is polluted for you got no remotes but what you think and feel is under your control and that’s what you call HOW YOU PERCEIVE? That’s what it really matters in this world. It will control everything just in a swing of mood.
When you are born with immense talents you can still fool your heart that you are born with nothing, then why don’t you start fooling your own heart when you are weak that you are strong.
If you are born to be a GOOD guy then do things wish everybody says it’s right but if you are born to be a GREAT guy then do what you think it’s right.
You are not born just to get a college degree, a job in your hand, get married and settle down like a frog till the end of your life. People will keep trying to stop you from having big dreams by saying that they do have dreams once but no one helped them that’s why they have to do what they are doing now. If they were chasing their dreams then they would become nothing. It’s good that they have some source of earning now and so on. Blah blah blah. They will tell you that dreaming big is useless and they will tell you to get a college degree and apply some damn exams or look for some jobs to buy a car, to buy rings for your wife and so on.
Sometimes you see the true things; you try to run away from rules because you know it’s hampering you. At that point, society will make you feel as the most indiscipline being just breathing as an excuse for your survival. Then again, you fall back with the fools. Remember, “The most indiscipline seed that flies away from the parent plant can only grow at its max.” Following will make you a good follower not a leader. This society will keep confusing you from different angles.
You keep saying that you are born free but chained. Don’t just hold your friend and tell him to let go of you. None of the rules in this society can chained you up, even if so, you still got the right key; your brain. When you want to be a singer, who stops you? You may say your father who keeps telling you to be a doctor. It’s not his words that stops you or chains you, it’s your weak heart that holds his words so tightly and you forgot that you are the one holding.
(The writer is a Motivational Orator, based in Canada. And can be reached at [email protected]; Facebook – Birkarnelzelzit – Young Thoughts; Twitter – Birkarnelzelzit, INSTAGRAM – Birkarnal, watch his WILL motivational videos by going to his YouTube channel @birkarnelzelzit thiyam)