Stop getting stuck with ‘What will they say?’

Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam
Sometimes you are stuck in the hell of ‘what will they say,’ and to let you know the truth, no one gives a damn about you. Don’t get stuck thinking that you are a point of discussion for everyone, no one cares seriously. The person whom you are suspecting of talking bad about you is also thinking that you are talking bad about him. But do you even give a damn? No. It’s all the fear that you accumulated due to over thinking. From today, just know that no one gives a damn about you, just do what you want to do in life; no one can stop you until you give them your attention. All you need to do is make yourself happy; when you are happy you will help your family to make them happy. So, stop thinking like a savior and do everything that will make your parents happy by crying under the pillow every night. Don’t give up, life is not about reaching something, it’s about how much you struggle to move.
There is nothing call destiny in life, karma is all your making. To point again, life is not at all about reaching a destination, it’s just an endless free roam, and you don’t need to know where to go as long as you are happy with your directionless journey. And don’t worry for the path, when you are happy traveling in that endless happiness of directionless roams. Trust me; you are already on the right path because the best path is that makes you smile when you travel.
Its human nature to wanna know your result and still be afraid to look at your mark sheet, we all never want to face the truth. You have really forgotten how important it is to face the truth; you really need to know where you are to enjoy this life’s journey. When you think you are bad, you feel sad but when someone says you are bad at your face, instead of feeling low, you will take in, to work on it and prove them wrong. So, sharing out when you are low is very much important, never stay alone when you are sad, it will never make you happy but sadder. And you know why you don’t want to talk to anyone when you are low? Because you don’t want to accept the truth. Being alone when you are sad will never let you think how to overcome but how to make yourself a tragic hero, crying and even thinking of suicide. Therefore, when you share things out, ‘You will put WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU in front of you,’ so, it will make you stronger and try gaining courage to face it. And, let me tell you one life time advice, NEVER CRY WHEN YOU FAIL, INSTEAD GET ANGRY IT WILL MAKE YOU WAY STRONGER.
Life is not about being adjustable but about being unique, life is not about being with the trend but of being unique by letting the trend look up to you. Sometimes it’s very necessary for us to fail because we tend to take everything for granted if we don’t fail. So, when we fail, it always kills our laziness.
Sometimes you need to scare yourself to kick yourself out of that comfort zone, don’t get poisoned with pleasures. You never want to get up from your bed just because you fool yourself that the thing which you have to do is not so important and could be postponed. For the thing that you want to do, you need to deadly want it, when you deadly want to get your dreams to reality through this endless journey, you will be afraid to even sleep long, you will be afraid to waste time, you will want to change your enjoyment from sleeping to chasing your dream.
Trust me, sleeping for the sake of sleepiness and sleeping after completing a task are of completely different tastes. All you have to know is; you are supposed to respect your alarm clock for it is not there to tell you how long you can sleep but to tell you how short you should sleep.
(The writer is a Motivational Orator, based in Canada. And can be reached at [email protected]; Facebook – Birkarnelzelzit – Young Thoughts; Twitter – Birkarnelzelzit, INSTAGRAM – Birkarnal, watch his WILL motivational videos by going to his YouTube channel @birkarnelzelzit thiyam)


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