Just like we hang our achievements on our wall, we should also start hanging our biggest failures for they give not just the lesson but also an encouragement that you do tried. And all the failures that you experienced while trying never go wasted for it only means you are aware of the road that you should avoid travelling.
After the heavy first paragraph, let me take you into my unlinked thoughts again. I know people now a days are talking so much about anger management, but if I have to put it in my way, anger is the fuel for both the terminals. Anger for a hero in the last scene makes the positivity garland the climax and anger for the villain traps himself into trouble.
If I have to say anything about death, it’s more of the perspective game. If death scares you, you are not truly living. If you enjoyed your vacation really well, you don’t feel bad when it ends for you are so excited to tell your stories to your friends in school or vice-versa.
To toggle you around in a serious note, as long as you know ‘for what you want’ makes you happy – you can do it. We might want so many things in life but never stop asking that ‘will I be really happy if I get that?’ if the answer is No, you are just making a wrong move. Happiness is not just a light mood but a heavy strength to face weights. Also, you have to remember that all the haters are not hurdles – for they are a choice to you, giving you a trailer in advance to be not like them. And at times like this, your happiness will not just be your passion but a parachute for gliding through the hate comments.
But the father of all keys to life is ‘time.’ And time is not the ‘tik-tok’ on your watch. Time is not calculated by hours spent but moments captured. You have to try flying with just all the moments captured for time waits for none.
And to have the best moments captured, you need to have a complete freedom and with freedom I don’t mean something boundaryless or living in a rule-less society but living in a world where every rule keeps you safe and happy.
If contentment is what you seek then expectation is what you need to seize. If you can help others before yourself, that’s sacrifice over service. If freedom is what you seek then fear is what you need to seize. If love is what you seek then lust is what you need to seize. If growth is what you seek then external comparison is what you need to seize. If happiness is what you seek then judgemental thoughts is what you need to seize.
The day you understand that, “your mind is the master of your body,” that’s the moment you will realize that problems are the colours of our life. If you truly understand the “your body” concept, then you will really use your body and direct it by not taking it a you but yours. Just like a driver can take the vehicle to any place of his interest, you can be anybody of your mind’s interest. And to be something you want; you need to sweat more on training so that you will bleed less during war. Always remember that if you want to rule the world – keep in mind that not all will love you.
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes, mistakes don’t make you fail but the fear of making mistakes make you fail. Sometimes your fear might make your mind lie to your body.
Don’t let your fear turn your disability into a comfortability. I am saying so because, people those who are afraid to grow acts like they are content with what they have just because of the fear.
Walk in the path you wish to learn the maximum not the path which you will make the least mistakes. And always say thank you to those who hate you for that’s the response they never want to get.
Too much of unlinked thoughts of mine today, but if someone hates you, you have something they don’t have, and you are above them. Never go up to them and tell them to not hate you, keep letting them hate you because deep down inside that hatred is the ‘fear’ in them, keep making them fear you for they will one day die with their hatred wishing they could do what you did.
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