I completely understand what it feels when you are alone, I also do understand what it feels when you are hurt and what it feels to be in the dark. I understand how it feels when you know that no one starts caring about you. While you are chasing for the love that people give you, you seem to forget the most important love, i.e. self-love, you forgot to love yourself.
Have you ever fallen in love? If you have, then you will understand what I am trying to say, when you love someone, you will be ready to do anything for that person, at some point you will be even willing to die for that person. If love is that strong, you seem to have loved the wrong person your whole life. Start loving yourself, then you will respect what you dream and you won’t be afraid to do anything for your dream, even dying – if it takes for the fulfilment. I know all this time, you have been hating yourself, thinking that hating yourself will bring the best out of you. Never will It take the good out but will keep killing all the courage to light up the dream you have.
We know life is short but no one really cares. Those people who are fighting cancer, they all just woke up to a day knowing they have cancer while they slept the other night thinking about traveling the world. Some of them slept thinking tomorrow was going to be waiting for them but they never woke up. Today morning you woke up, reading my lines, do you know how many who slept at the same time with you didn’t wake up today anymore? Do you know how lucky you are to just being able to wake up again? Now that you are awake, what are you going to do? Are you going to still wait for the right day to start running after your dreams? Let me make something clear, time is always ahead of us and if you are waiting, it’s not making any sense at all for you owe nothing to time and time will never stop or come back for you to meet or give your perfect moment. If you are someone waiting, you probably are just warming up to die as a loser. Have you ever tried helping others? If not, start doing it, lift someone up when they are down. Because one day when you are at your weakest point, someone will come to lift you up because we all struggle and no one has ever been immune to the struggle. You must have been going through hell right now but remember that hell does not own you and you got to keep moving forward.
Do you want to know something simple? Everyone in this world is going through something or the other, and only those struggles hard gets through it and they are only the ones who has stories to share to others. That’s what we call living in the heart of millions. If you want more stories to share and tell the world, keep struggling and keep taking risk.
At some point in your life, you will want to give up completely, you will keep telling yourself that you have come in a wrong path, you will hate yourself for anything/everything you have done in your past and in those moments – think of all the happy moments and think of all the feeling you felt while you started the journey that you are going on now. Your strengths that you thought lost will come back to you well sharpened.
Fail, fail, fail and make mistakes, mistakes, mistakes for that’s the only way you learn by – heart not by head. Lastly, I know you have something inside you, I can feel it for I do have the same, keep that safe for that’s the only key to succeed not just proceed.
The writer is a Motivational orator, who currently resides in Canada. He can be reached at
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