Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam
Loving someone is the easiest thing to do. And getting out of it is the most difficult of all. The difficult part is when your partner gets out of it and you are still stuck in the midst of the drama. And it is not a portrait or a landscape view, it's a panorama. You are still in there fighting over the same issues, sorting out similar problems and trying to figure out what has to be done to move the dead thing moving. The emotions of separation that people face are so pure and real. But do not waste them in showing it to others- deal with them on your own, take time to heal. But do not be under the pressure to recover fast. Be at your own pace.
Some project ‘longing for more’ as motivation and to some as greed. Some project ‘marking territory in love’ as possessiveness and to some as belongingness. Some think consistency is the mother of growth and yet some say ‘speeding at the right times’ decides the winner.
The growth in life happens when you realize that you have climbed one mountain, but soon you realize that is the starting of another. And this is a never ending process.
Missing someone you loved or loving someone you missed, losing someone you had or having someone you lost - both directions have their own placed share of happiness. Life is a loop? Well - it’s a loop at different times. I am not getting scientific here but pain and pleasure, agony and ecstasy, day and night - it’s a happening loop. Life is more like a never ending practice ground. There will always be something better than the best - for the top of a mountain is the base of the next one.
Now you know the world is run by strong perspectives. So listen, if you can believe it, you can receive it. If you can conceive it, you can attain it. The most powerful tool that you have right now in your body is your mind. That’s why the enemy fights you in your mind. The devil that has to tie you up for you to be bowed, he just has to tie up your head, with stress, with worries, with anger. And trust me, the devil can make you physically sick because your mind is sick.
It’s all a strong perspective that’s needed. Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten. It’s all how we see at the end of the day. People who wonder if the glass is half empty or full miss the point that the glass is refillable. Trust me - you need to water your soul to have a strong perspective. Only with that - you will have all the odds in believing your passion. Your passion is waiting for your courage to catch up.
Only with hustle - comes the strong perspective. Every successful person in the world is a hustler one way or another. We all hustle to get where we need to be. Only a fool would sit around and wait on another man to feed him. Greatness only comes before hustle in the dictionary. Work like there is someone working twenty four hours a day to take it away from you. Everything comes to him who hustles while he waits. And the best from Lincoln, “Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.”
The loop from love to hustling in life, it’s all the reality struggling while you blink. You know what! Enjoy the hustle by loving what you want. Take care readers.
The writer is an International Awardee and also a major in International Business Marketing from Algonquin, Ottawa, Canada. He is also the Managing Director & Chief Marketing Officer of Khoihee Industries, regd. under the directorate of industries and commerce, Government of Manipur. He can be reached at
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