A life well lived is better than a life, long lived. This is a world where clarity is the believed perspective, this is a world that’s happening inside you. Until the day you close your senses, this world will keep seemingly grow. Trust is what’s killing this world. For in books trust is something very own, but in real world trust is something that’s so much in mixed with “WHYS?” These reasons bound agreements which are again beautifully cocooned with a word call “Trust,” has made this world into a two-sided stage.
People will trust you until your terms are kept stable with them. This simple concept made me question a lot about trust for it’s of no difference from a business partnership. Life is really a funny partnership, people will always stand for you when you are happy but when hurdles define the track people will leave you. But those who stand for you even when hurdles garland you, those are the ones who will be with you forever.
I know there will be times when people those you trust leaves you but here pops in the definition, I gave you, this thing call ‘trust’ is nothing but a cheap partnership. The conditioned trust that they gave when not fulfilled, it breaks the partnership which to me is really funny for the partnership is seen from one perspective only. Yes, with no doubt I can stand that we humans have our own point of view and we have our own judgemental personalised perspective, but we can’t compromise the truth.
For the last two months, I have been living in a world of ‘who-to-trust.’ Thinking about people don’t trust me and who I trust were not the right people. But those times that went across never did go wasted for now I know trust is built in the toughest times, not in an office nor in a beautiful wedding. Verbal commitments can be made anywhere, but when we come down to the real business of real trust – it’s just the hardest times that defines the state.
Have always thought giving up is for weak people, then in the last two months, I learnt something so different. I have been suffering because I am scared of the new environment that will come when I give up. Needed so much of optimism to give up for growth. Well, so many people in this world are not dying because they gave up, it’s because they are stuck. To break it more clearly, when I say ‘Stuck’ it’s not that you are trapped but your fears are holding to your comfort zone so tightly that it’s making you stay stagnant.
There is always a part of me that says, “My time will also come,” again another part of me fights for that time will only come if I carry on, and for me to carry on, I needed to give up a lot of things. Getting stuck in the past is something I and many have to give up for moving on, forget the incidents and just move on with the lessons.
To get over something, you can never drive around – you have to drive over it. Hurdles in life are not physical things, it’s the game in the mind. Getting over something by facing it gives you a weapon which will make you see the next hurdle as a level but not as a wall. There will be walls at time too, if it’s not worth climbing, take few steps back and drive around for in the game of life, time is the most important tool – better not waste it.
Even during my hard times, I tried staying focus for I know all those who insulted me will turn back when I get to the next level, claiming they were not insulting me but inspiring me. For those who follow me on social media, you know what happened, and I just want to let you guys know that, as long as you want – you will always grow, as long as you grow – you will always have followers, as long as you have followers – you will have haters, as long as you have haters – you know you are on the right path.
(The writer is a Motivational Orator, based in Canada. And can be reached at [email protected]
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