What’s right for me?

Sometimes the tree which can bend the most passes through the toughest storms, sometimes the laziest person invents the most efficient objects, sometimes your best friend turns out to be your worst enemy, sometimes your toughest days give the best results. But the safest road leads to a herd, the well-designed roads are the shortest, the safe spot on the mountain doesn’t give the best view.
Expectation drives you high and it’s turn down result drives you deadly low, curiosity makes you try but it makes you tired fast too. I know, “Honesty is the best policy,” also don’t forget that, “Honesty is the worst privacy.”
This is a world where majority tone vibrates the truth. And the murderer of all quotes, “Good things come to those who wait,” yes, it’s true and, “Wonders happen to those who doesn’t wait,” choose the better one. “If you can’t beat them, join them,” remember this quote? That’s nothing better than, “If you can’t go up, give up.” So now, why don’t we extend a little more, “If you can’t beat them, join them and kill them from within.”
Ever since, I have been trying to sell my time for all, thinking I will be seen from their best perspective. But lately, I realized that no one really cares.
Sparks are momentary – it’s just the ignition force and if you don’t care about that spark – don’t blame saying the force was weak when it goes off.
Every-time you have a spark inside you – know that in the next minute it will seem impossible if you don’t water it in the first minute.
Don’t and never be afraid to take risk in life, the worst that might happen is only making you fail, that’s it and as long as you have that risk-taking spirit, those failures will never be a wall but a bridge to your new blessed you. 
Fear grows in all the hearts and, me and you being not an exception – let’s inhale this fear but let’s keep one in mind that – if you can execute fear then it excites you but if you can’t then fear will put an end to your existence.
It’s okay to feel lonely in the crowd – as long as you know where you stand. Life has never been fair to any – so you are never an exception with the treatment life provides, trust me – everyone has a story and the none are equal but 99% of them are similar – this world is looking for that 1% which speaks nothing but – “Grind till greatness garlands you.”
Have you ever played a game you hate just because the ending is good or just because trailer was cool? Okay if you keep playing the game you hate just to reach the last mission to get that moment everyone talks about; you just wasted the one life you got. To break it down, what will you feel after you finish playing the game? Happy? For how many days? 1 year? So, you invested all your life to be happy for one year? Listen, this is a serious issue, the life that you live, if you think you are not enjoying it, but you are pushing yourself for a good result at the end, you are not growing but getting stuck. The unenjoyable life that you live will never give you what you want and it’s not worth wasting so much time for just a very little reward. You are not born to enjoy only after you retire, the process is more important than the result.
The season is on, the game is on, and keep in mind that the time is running out.
From the day you were born, you already started dying, now the question is, do you wanna do what you want to do before you die? If yes, go ahead, if not please start working under somebody to save money for your luxury coffin. When you see someone doing well, instead of getting jealous, try to visualise how much hardships he must have went through to get there.
(The writer is a Motivational Orator, based in Canada. And can be reached at [email protected]; Facebook – Birkarnelzelzit – Young Thoughts; Twitter – Birkarnelzelzit, INSTAGRAM – Birkarnal, watch his WILL motivational videos by going to his YouTube channel @Live With Bir.)