If ever you think of something you want to fall in love with, it is your scribbled words about future in your diary; you really need to be madly in love – you know who? with your dreams. Many are cocooned in the myth that we are to do what everyone does because everyone thinks it’s the best way for comparing their equivalent or visible growths. Saying so, never ever kill your wants of being just one. This so called ‘everybody’ is made with many ‘one-bodies’ like you, and everybody thinks ‘everybody’ is doing the same and wanting to be different from ‘everybody’ where nobody forced nobody to be like everybody but just his timid heart searched for the warmth of cradle songs in the hunt for comfortability to share fears and blames. Being unique is not all about being completely different from the rest or heading different from the rest but heading differently from the rest.
Life is full of choices, but if you glance in closely, you will notice that it’s just the two choices, “yes or no,” and again interestingly - both are right. And people who are in the stage of ‘MAY BE’ – trust me, you are the one who is in a big trouble - for life will torture you badly. Factually, ‘I can’ and ‘I can’t’ are equally right. And CAN and CAN’T should not be decided by the ability but by the willingness. No one is born ‘being able’ but can learn to be ‘willing,’ that’s where the point is, millions think that they are not enough just because they performed badly in certain test but never were they willing to perform enough-ly. Even if you did poor in any, that ‘willingness’ will pull you up to the track. There are millions who hate you, and 99% of them have the same reason for why they hate you, it’s nothing but you got something which they don’t have.
This is a society where truth is nothing but something accepted by majority. And the funny part is that majority of this society have made the truth to something that is comfortable to them. And the comfortability that they have created is hurting each and every one of them, even saying so - they still are comfortable with this un-comfortability because they now live in the world they created for the other – basically stuck in its own game.
Aren’t you tired of crying everyday while washing your face - hiding tears. It’s okay that you are hiding from this society but you at times are trying to hide from yourself. Cry, cry and cry but before you wipe those tears off - look yourself in the mirror and ask for why you are crying. The answer might be stupid with any amount but that courage to answer will bring out the power to overcome something call ‘fear to hit the truth.’ The moment you are shaped by truth, the true inner form comes – where you no longer have to wear bright colours to speak your mind – trust me, your face will be your best ‘sales person.’ It will do all the talking of your mind, a slight smile will speak well and save four ‘Saris.’ When you are hurt, tell yourself on your face that - you are hurt, for only then you can convince yourself that there are better things in life for you rather than staying broken and destroyed. Coz until you know it’s useless – you will keep doing it.
Parents keep trying to tell their kids that only their advice will make their ward’s life fruitful. But the only advice that can make their children worth living on this planet will be, “Go Live Your Live.” To make something clear, ‘you are born to start, not just to continue.’ As you are born to start, you are not supposed to give up your own dream just to fulfil someone’s unfulfilled dreams. Stop becoming a doctor because your mom is sick, stop appearing for NEET just because your father could not cross the hurdle, because one day you will know how foolish it is to think ‘obedience is all about killing your dreams to fulfil your parent’s dreams.’